Happy birthday, See Clair Write!

Photo c/o Christian Smith on my first day at Octane.

My first day at Octane! Photo c/o Christian Smith.

It’s fitting that my blog’s birthday falls on the day where the Blog Like Crazy prompt is to talk about your beliefs. See Clair Write has become an outgrowth of those, and I love working to show them plainly.

For me, trust and belief go hand in hand. These internal markers are an excellent way to flesh out the relationships and conversations I have with others. As I’ve said before, I’m a compulsive list maker. Things as personal as beliefs are no different. Here are some random ones of mine:

  • Cocktails are cultural artifacts. Whether through their origins, backstories or associations, cocktails are a great way to connect with the bright — and sordid — moments in our collective history. In a contemporary setting, asking a bartender about a drink’s name can spark hours of discussion about their history (or the bar’s).
  • I’m a nerd. A huge, flaming, Doctor Who and Sherlock watching, China Mieville reading, football enjoying, drink mixing, cosplaying, music snobby nerd. I can talk for hours about all of these things. However, I’m also nerdy because I keep friends with a lot of people who are outside these fandoms because they have something to teach me and vice versa. It’s part of why I fell in love with Adam.
  • When I stop learning, I will die. Overdramatic statement? Maybe, but it’s pretty much the truth. Anytime I stop reading or research or writing for more than a day, I feel much less alive. I hadn’t realized how much I missed reading fiction until I read my friend Cecilia Dominic‘s book The Mountain Shadow in two days.
  • I judge our friendship through hugs. I love hugs. They’re a good barometer of how trusting and trustworthy an individual is. Though I understand that there’s a boundary of not forcing too much physical contact on someone, a bear hug will almost always go a longer ways than a side-hug-slash-pat-on-the-back.
  • Respect, respect, respect. Chances are that we don’t see eye to eye on everything and are unlikely to change each others’ minds on topics such as religion, politics, sex, etc. Judgment isn’t going to win over my heart and mind. If we can’t discuss them civilly or intellectually, we won’t discuss them at all.
  • Conversation is hugely important. Since the filter between my brain and mouth resembles a sieve, we’re probably going to end up talking about religion, politics, sex, etc. I’m always fascinated by others’ backgrounds and opinions…until they degenerate into proselytization or judgment. If it gets to that point, I’m out.

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10 responses to “Happy birthday, See Clair Write!

  1. rediseult

    Woo hoo, happy blog birthday! And many thanks for the shout-out. 🙂

    ❤ C.D.

  2. Happy blog birthday, Clair!

  3. feeling alive- YES! (good for you for being so aware to know when you feel less than alive). hugs- yes yes yes! (on point – glad you articulated something that i’ve been trying to– hugs are serious stuff- the way a person gives a hug is very revealing.). respect & conversation – absolutely yes. keep writing Clair!!

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